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Ennis Residents Star in IMPACT Ennis Campaign

Now_Staff — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 21:28:12 +0000

Like 84% of Ennis adults, Ross Jones believes it’s not okay to give alcohol to youth.

He knows that alcohol kills more kids than all other illegal drugs combined and that, even when used with supervision, it can cause permanent damage to developing brains. That’s why Ross and four other Ennis community leaders have joined up as spokespersons for the Ennis Safe Homes Network this summer. The Safe Homes Network is a pledge program that educates adults on how to provide a safe environment for youth, especially by keeping alcohol out of the hands of kids. Underage drinking is a leading cause of teen deaths, accidents, alcoholism, and academic failure, yet adults are the number one source of alcohol for kids. In fact, approximately 70% of secondary students say that alcohol is easy or very easy to get.

Throughout July and August, IMPACT Ennis members will be promoting the Safe Homes Network and encouraging adults to set boundaries and provide consistent parental monitoring, especially when it comes to alcohol and other dangerous substances. Ennis residents will see familiar faces carrying this message around town in the form of billboards, newspaper ads, posters, handouts, and a public service video. All will have the opportunity to sign the pledge and appear in the Safe Homes directory.

The Ennis Safe Homes Network is just one strategy of the IMPACT Ennis community coalition to reduce underage drinking in Ennis. To learn more about Ennis Safe Homes, visit www.ennissafehomes.com.

Appearing in the Safe Homes video are: Ross Jones, Jane Mize, Booker Washington, Mateo Martinez, Betty Honza, Madison Betik, Reagan Holley, Bailey Betik, Taylor Dodson, Aaron Jacek and Matt Loper.

The video was produced by Marshall Hinsley of Blue Sky Media. The superhero photos are by Ennis photographer Rosalyn Todaro of Roz Photo.

Save Money with Multiple Policies

Now_Staff — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 17:14:35 +0000

In today’s busy world, filled with concern over the rising cost of gas and housing, many of us look for ways to get greater value for our time and money. One way you may not have considered is having all of your insurance needs taken care of in one place.
There are advantages to having your car, home and family protected by the same insurance company. Switching all your policies to one well-respected insurer might save you time and money, not to mention the convenience of having only one number to call for questions or claims.
Many insurance companies offer a range of discounts that vary by state. Be sure to ask the agent about the availability and amount of any discounts offered by the insurer. Here are some common discounts you should know about:
- Multiple line: Your premiums may be reduced if you have more than one policy with the same company or family of companies that covers your car.
- Good student: Full-time students (high school or higher) maintaining at least a “B” average may qualify for reduced premiums.
- Multiple cars: Your premiums may be reduced if there are two or more private passenger cars in the household insured by the same company or family of companies.
These are just a few of the discounts that may save you money. Once you have considered price, think about the quality of service you expect. The best value should save you both time and money. Here are a few things to consider:

- Do you have one person to call when you need help?

- Is the insurer available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week?

- Does the insurer make it easy to file a claim?

- Is the insurer available to discuss your needs and help
customize a package of services that is best for you and
your family?

• Do you feel confident in the insurer’s financial stability
and ability to pay if your family suffers a loss?

Be sure you’re getting the most value for your time and money. Call your agent or insurance company today and ask if you can get more value by having all your insurance needs taken care of in one place.

Written by Andrea Walton, a State Farm agent based in Red Oak.

July is Crape Myrtle Time

Now_Staff — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 17:08:24 +0000

Look around at all those gorgeous, blooming trees! If you do not have some crape myrtle trees, try them. There are varieties for every space, taste and color preference. They can run from 2 feet (miniatures) to 20-plus feet (tree size). They are all ultra- hardy and do very nicely on natural rainfall after the first year. The key is to pick your color and know the maximum height you can tolerate in the space you are considering for planting. Do not plant 20-plus foot trees under your power lines!
Texas A&M recommends some good varieties for our mid- Texas areas. Their sizes and names are as follows:

Red
2-3 feet Pocomoke
3-6 feet Dwarf Low Flame
5-12 feet Cheyenne, Tonto
10-20 feet Comanche
20-plus feet Arapaho

PINK
3-6 feet McFadden’s Pinkie
5-12 feet Caddo
10-20 feet Osage
20-plus feet Biloxi

PURPLE
2-3 feet Velma’s Royal Delight
3-6 feet Dwarf Royalty
5-12 feet Zuni
10-20 feet Lipan
20-plus feet Muskogee, Wichita

WHITE
5-12 feet Acoma
10-20 feet Byer’s White
20-plus feet Fantasy, Kiowa

You will notice not all sizes have all colors available. Take your pick of size and color. Buy from a reputable nursery. Ask if they will take it back if it is not the right size and color. Good nurseries will! Plant the tree in the full sun and water thoroughly each week until the days no longer hit 85 degrees or higher. All new plants need special care and crape myrtles are no different. Your investment in thought, time and money will bloom and bloom and bloom!

Written by Nancy Fenton, Master Gardener.

In the Kitchen with Mary White

Now_Staff — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 16:40:51 +0000

Mary White began cooking around the age of 12. While her mother set out to pursue a college education, Mary was responsible for preparing dinner for her father. After Mary and her husband, Jerry, had their two children, Jim and Karen, she began to be a creative cook. “Having a husband who is forgiving of experiments that don’t turn out just right and children who weren’t picky eaters,” she recalled, “encouraged me to try new recipes or to make up my own.” Mary’s “extra-curricular” activities include serving on the board of the CH Education Foundation, since its inception in 2002, and she was recently appointed to the CH library board. She also likes entertaining friends. “We enjoy having people in our home to share a meal,” she said. “Food is often the ‘excuse’ to get together with others.”

Written by Faith Browning

HOT FUDGE PUDDING

My Mom’s recipe and a favorite memory from childhood.

1 cup flour 3/4 cup sugar
2 Tbsp. cocoa
2 tsp. baking powder
1/2 tsp. salt
1/2 cup milk
2 Tbsp. salad oil or melted shortening
1 tsp. vanilla
3/4 to 1 cup pecans or walnuts
3/4 cup brown sugar
1/4 cup cocoa
1 3/4 cup hot water
1. Preheat oven to 350 F.
2. Mix together first five ingredients. Add milk, oil and vanilla; mix till smooth. Stir in nuts.
3. Pour into greased 8 x 8 x 2-inch glass pan.
4. Mix together brown sugar and cocoa; sprinkle over batter. Pour hot water over entire batter.
5. Bake for 45 minutes or until toothpick comes out clean.

SWEET POTATO-CHIPOTLE GRATIN

4 cups half-and-half
1 or 2 canned chipotle peppers, with some of the liquid
6 medium sweet potatoes, peeled and thinly sliced.
1. In a blender puree half-and-half and chipotle peppers with some of the liquid.
2. In a 10 x 10-inch casserole, arrange 1/4 of the sweet potatoes. Pour 1/4 of the half-and-half mixture over all. Repeat with remaining potatoes and half-and-half to make 4 layers.
3. Bake at 350 F for 1 hour, or until the liquid has been absorbed and the potatoes are browned.

PEDRO SPECIAL

1 lb. ground turkey or ground beef
1 garlic clove, minced
1/3 cup onion, chopped
1 14.5-oz can crushed tomatoes
1/4 tsp. oregano or several springs of fresh oregano
2 Tbsp. chili powder 1 can dark red kidney beans, drained, reserve liquid* 1 can black beans, drained
1 bag of corn chips
1. Brown meat, garlic and onion; drain all grease.
2. Stir in tomatoes, oregano and chili powder; simmer for 10-15 minutes.
3. Put 1/2 of the meat mixture in bottom of greased casserole dish. Top with drained kidney beans; cover with corn chips. Put remaining meat mixture on next; top with black beans. *If mixture looks dry add a little of the reserved liquid from the beans.
4. Top with corn chips.
5. Bake covered at 350 F for 45 minutes. Uncover last 10 minutes. Serve with bowls of shredded lettuce, fresh chopped sweet onion and sour cream to put on top as taste buds desire.

TUNA, CHICKPEA AND SMOKED CHEDDAR SALAD

2 6 1/2-oz. cans solid white tuna in water
2 ribs celery 1 15-oz. can chickpeas
1 6-oz. jar artichoke hearts in oil
1 4-oz. jar roasted red peppers
1/4 lb. smoked cheddar or any smoked cheese,
1/2-inch cubes
1/4 cup fresh basil, or 1 Tbsp. dried
1/4 cup fresh parsley, chopped
DRESSING: 1/4 cup balsamic vinegar
1-2 cloves garlic, minced
1 tsp. Dijon mustard
1/4 cup olive oil
1. Drain the tuna, empty into medium bowl and flake with fork.
2. Rinse and dry celery, cut into 1/8-inch angled pieces.
3. Drain the chickpeas. Rinse them and shake to remove excess water.
4. Drain the artichoke hearts and cut them into quarters.
5. Drain red peppers and chop them coarsely.
6. Pinch basil into 1/2-inch pieces
7. Add all of the prepared ingredients to the tuna in the bowl.
8. In a separate bowl, combine all the dressing ingredients except the oil; whisk for 15 seconds. Add the oil in a slow, steady stream, whisking continuously until it is incorporated into the dressing. Let this set in the refrigerator for at least an hour to blend the flavors. This dressing is good on lots of different kinds of salads and keeps well in the refrigerator.
9. Drizzle dressing on individual portions. Looks pretty served individually on a bed of lettuce.

PORTOBELLO MUSHROOM CHILI

1 Tbsp. olive oil
4 green onions, white and some green parts, sliced
2 cloves garlic, minced
2 Tbsp. chili powder
1 Tbsp. Italian herb mix
1 tsp. crushed dried fennel
1 tsp. salt
1/4 tsp. ground red pepper
Fresh ground pepper
1/2 cup Chianti or other red wine
3 portobello mushrooms, coarsely chopped
3 14 1/2-oz. cans diced tomatoes, with juices
2 15-oz. cans cannellini beans, rinsed, drained Shredded Parmesan cheese
1. In a heavy pan, heat oil over medium-high heat. Add onions and garlic, chili powder, Italian herb mix, fennel, salt, red pepper and black pepper to taste. Cook, stirring until fragrant, about 1 minute.
2. Add wine and mushrooms; cook, stirring, until mushrooms have softened slightly, about 2 minutes. Add tomatoes and beans. Heat to a boil; reduce heat to simmer. Cook, stirring occasionally for about 15 minutes. Garnish with Parmesan cheese.

Do Not Drink the Water

Now_Staff — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 03:59:09 +0000

Those happy days of summer spent splashing in the pool without a care in the world may not be so carefree. The closing of public pools because of contamination brought Recreational Water Illnesses (RWI) to the forefront. RWIs occur when swallowing or having some contact with water that is contaminated with pathogens (germs). These pathogens may be bacteria such as shigella and E. coli, or parasites such as Cryptosporidium, Giardia or even some viruses. The most frequent symptom is diarrhea along with fever, vomiting and stomach cramps. After exposure to polluted water, skin, eye, ear and respiratory symptoms are all indicative of a possible infection.
One of the most common ways these germs are spread is from humans suffering with diarrhea entering the water. Even barring the occasional “accident,” anyone with recent diarrhea will have enough germs on their bottom to easily contaminate the water supply. To lessen the probability of becoming ill from RWIs, do not swallow the water! Even a small amount can be devastating. Many people think pool water is safe because it has been treated. On the contrary, some of these pathogens can live for several days in chlorinated water. Even with a perfectly maintained pool, it is impossible to prevent all RWIs because you cannot control every circumstance of what gets into the water.
Therefore, if swimming in a public pool, please remember that it is a communal venue. If someone is ill or careless, you may not know it. It is not always evident when fecal material gets in the water. Water that is treated with chlorine is not a substitution for good personal hygiene. The CDC (Centers for Disease Control) recommends showering with soap and water before swimming. Wash your hands after using the bathroom. Please consider others and do not swim if you are ill with diarrhea. Parents of small children need to be especially vigilant and offer frequent potty breaks to avoid accidents in the water. Clean the bottom with soap and water before entering the pool.
Swimming pools are not the only water venues susceptible to this problem. Hot tubs and Jacuzzis are particularly vulnerable to the spread of waterborne diseases because the high temperature of the water causes the chlorine to evaporate more quickly. Lakes, rivers, springs or ponds carry an even higher risk. Any number of pollutants can foul the water such as sewage, animal waste or even a heavy runoff from a recent rain. It may be inconvenient to practice due diligence when the water and good times beckon. However, being careful may not only keep others from becoming ill, it will keep you safer, too.

Written by Betty Tryon, R. N.

This article is for general information only and does not constitute medical advice. Consult with your physician if you have questions regarding this topic.

Sounds of Learning

Now_Staff — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 03:54:04 +0000

Student-drawn monkeys, tigers and other jungle animals trek across the brightly colored halls of the Mansfield campus of Pantego Christian Academy (PCA), where the sounds of learning echo with what can only be described as fun. Perhaps it is the dedicated teachers, partnered with involved parents, resolved to bringing up children to stand on biblical faith. Perhaps it is the curriculum, with an Honorable Character Program, which rewards students based on character traits such as honor, obedience, wisdom, kindness, self-control and honesty. Or perhaps it is the students themselves, working hard and making their education a successful pathway to their future. Whatever the reason may be, the difference at Mansfield PCA is tangible, making it easy to see why every year, more and more students and families are joining the stampede.

Having just completed its third year, PCA’s second campus is growing by leaps and bounds. Elementary Principal Cindy Sherrill explained, “We opened in 2007 with 37 students. This year we had right around 100, and we’re looking to have about 130 next year. We’re adding a grade level every year to get to fifth grade. Right now we have 3-year-olds through third grade, so this coming year we’ll add fourth and then fifth.” The current plan after students complete fifth grade is to send them on to the Arlington campus for middle school. “In years to come,
it’d be grand to have all grade levels right here, but as for right now, that’s the plan,” she shared.

Currently, the school building and grounds are leased from Mansfield Bible Church. “It had been a desire of the school board for a number of years to go south and have a Christian school in this area. Mansfield Bible Church was buying this facility in 2007, but at the time it was too big for them, so they asked us to come here and start our school,” Cindy said. “There was our opportunity, and it’s
worked out perfectly, because we were able to start small and grow.”

Cindy is a long-time PCA Panther, having taught kindergarten at the Arlington campus for 14 years, from which both of her children graduated. The move from teaching to principal was a bit unexpected, but the last three busy years have reinforced what she feels is a calling. “I heard someone say, ‘This is the hardest job I’ve ever loved.’ I think that says it perfectly,” she laughed.

Having the benefit of a well-established campus, with 47 years of successful methods and curriculum, has made the job of Mansfield PCA’s educators a bit easier. Plus, it never hurts to bring along some friends. “We brought some lead teachers from Arlington, who had been at that campus for several years, which was a huge help,” Cindy noted. “We also have some specialty teachers we share part time with the Arlington campus. That helps keep us connected as campuses and gives our kids more interaction.”

Contrary to some views on private schooling, Cindy is quick to point out her students are not removed from the “real world,” but are instead being equipped with skills which will help them make that world a better place. “Our intention from the very beginning with each child is college preparation, so we have very challenging academics. But we also teach everything from a biblical perspective and a Christian worldview,” she noted. “We bring the Lord into everything we teach to help our students stand on biblical knowledge and know why they believe what they believe, especially in subjects like science, so they can defend their faith. I tell parents, ‘Yes, we are a Christian school and we teach the Bible, but it’s bigger than that.’”

Rhonda Attaway, admissions director, praises the PCA parents for the school’s success. “Our parents are very much involved. We want them to be on board and understand our curriculum. We’re a covenantal school; our purpose is to partner with Christian parents to raise up Christian children,” she said. “We have very like-minded families, so there is a bonding that takes place. They really get to know each other, even in the classes above and below. There’s just that family feel. Everybody plays a part.” Smaller class sizes, with no more than 15 students per class, mean more individualized attention. “The parents get the sense that their child is noticed here and cared for, not just a number,” Rhonda added.

Our community has been reaping the benefits of PCA Panther pride, as students learn to “do unto others” according to Matthew 7:12. The Children’s Medical Center of Dallas, local nursing homes and food banks, Haiti earthquake survivors and the American Cancer Society are just a few of the recipients of the students’ volunteerism. “We think that service and mission projects within the community are very important. We’re raising community- minded children with the responsibility of service,” Cindy said. “We all know, as parents, that you can’t shelter your child completely from the world. But, by parents making the choice to have their children come here, I think they are giving them the support they need to be in the world.”

Written by Jaime Ruark

Board the Pirate Ship

Now_Staff — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 03:46:17 +0000

This is not a tale of pirates who sail the seas and steal plunder. This is a story about a Little League team, supported by coaches, families, teachers and neighbors. Only two things are on their list to steal: bases and hearts. “What makes our team unique is that every one of these kids is the team and community’s kids,” Neil Hopkins, assistant coach remarked.

William Corbett, a team member, sums it up this way. “This team is like a family
to me because we are always there for each other.”

Many residents of Ennis know about the Ennis Independent School District school bus dubbed “The Pirate Ship” used to transport members of the Ennis Pirates U 12 select baseball team from an intermediate school to an elementary campus where several of their parents work. So what is so special about this team? By choosing to compete in the Southwest Classic League with Dallas area teams, the Pirates do not always win every game. “These kids aren’t going to remember how many games they won,” Neil remarked, “but they will remember the camaraderie and individual plays.”

Coach Jason Baker sets high expectations for the boys. “They’re all excellent students, which is a great accomplishment while staying so busy playing baseball,” Sharon Honza, a team mom, stated. Team members include: Ian Baker, William Corbett, Brett Doring, Rhett Holcomb, Jacob Honza, Mason Hopkins, Cole Howeth, Logan Lipscomb, Evan Moreno, Dylan Nors and Matthew Shorrock. “Each and every one of these boys has a desire to be a good baseball player,” Jason said. “They are respectful kids; they are very coachable kids, and they have developed a strong work ethic.”

Already the team has accumulated some memorable plays. Neil remembered the first tournament. “We won against a pitcher, who threw 62 miles per hour,
and we went on to win the championship in the last inning. It was pretty neat stuff
hitting a kid that could throw like that,” Neil remembered. “The kids were so proud.”

Another great moment occurred at the Little Heroes Field in Dallas last spring. Jason recalled, “We got beat 17-2. They made us look like we didn’t know our business. We came back and beat the first seed team, then played for the championship and won a trophy. This was the turning point for the team; they were turning into baseball players. They quickly found out baseball is a disciplined, mental game. It’s all about experience.”

Experience is what Jason brings to coaching with a degree in kinesiology, and experience playing baseball at Ennis High School and college. “Jason made us realize how complex baseball is,” Neil offered. “He gives the kids a chance to grow.” However, each coach has brought skills to the team. Neil, a CPA by profession, said, “I know my role. I handle the administrative side for the team.”
Jason agreed, “Neil speaks reality when I see stars. There is a good ebb and flow between all of us.”

There should be; these coaches have been doing this job since their boys were on a team for 4-year-olds. Neil’s wife, Carrie, and daughters, Marley and Morgan, are ready to assist and cheer as are Jason’s wife, Kim and daughter, Katie. Assistant Coach Chris Shorrock completes the coaching team. All three coaches have sons on the team.

The coaches are quick to give the parents credit for the success of the team. “Parents are our biggest asset,” Neil stated. “These are good kids parented by good parents. They make Ennis proud.” Parents organize fundraisers, carpool to games, serve as officers, create the team’s Web site and offer support to each other.
“The Pirate families spend a lot of time with each other,” Robin Corbett, team mom, stated. The boys even get to cheer on their parents who formed their own baseball league team, the Night Terrors.

The Pirates attract a large following from the Ennis community at games. Teachers, neighbors, church and extended family members are often in attendance and are supportive in every way. The team also lists many business supporters within the community on their Web site: www.ennispiratesu11.shutterfly.com. “We truly are community-based,” Jason said.

Having fun is important especially in the fight against burnout. The spring season’s games revealed the kids were a little rusty in their skills which gave them a rocky start. “Every kid is a darn good ballplayer. We had to teach them that the challenge gave them a greater opportunity to excel,” Jason said. “The kids have worked hard. We have to develop ‘muscle memory.’ Everyone practices with a sense of purpose and a smile on his face. Hopefully, if these kids have a chance to play in high school, college or beyond, these skills and experiences will serve them well.”

As the season matures, so do these young baseball players suited out in red and black. Team father, Chad Corbett reflected, “I think each of these boys will be able to cherish the memories of this experience when they are adults.”
His son, William, said it all. “There is no better place to be on the weekend than on the baseball field.”

Written by Virginia Riddle

Squared Away and Proud

Now_Staff — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 03:36:26 +0000

You can tell something big is going on when you pull into the parking lot next to 23 yellow school buses. Inside there is a kind of orderly movement everywhere in the halls, and a quiet confusion in the gymnasiums and auditoriums of Corsicana High School (CHS). This is the final Junior ROTC drill team competition held once a year in Corsicana. Cadets in full dress uniforms walk in small groups, or they march smartly down the hall looking “squared away” in formation with their teammates. Parents and friends follow behind the cadets as they move from one competition venue to another.

The Corsicana ROTC cadets are the hosts of this event. Five times during the year, CHS teams travel to compete in competitions held at other high schools and at Baylor University, but this final meet is theirs to plan and carry out. Preparations begin in the first semester when invitations are sent to the ROTC programs in other schools. Final preparations are stepped up after the last away competition in March. The ROTC Commander, Colonel Pailes and Master Sergeant, Roger Hardie, oversee the drill team competition, but the student cadet officers supervise the event as part of their leadership training.

Arrangements must be made for parking buses that are bringing teams of 30 or 40 students and their parents. Attendants must be assigned to guide the visitors to the registration location. The reception desk in the cafeteria is staffed and each of the visiting team members are provided with a folder containing the day’s schedule of events and a map of the school so they can locate the gyms and auditoriums used to house the competitions. Signs are posted all over the building so cadets and parents do not get lost in the maze of hallways. Food must be prepared and scoring programs made ready. The CHS host cadets arrive at school at 6:00 a.m.; even the ones who were at home making tamales until 3:00 a.m. The parents of the cadets also arrive bringing the Mexican food they prepared along with the standard teen food such as hot dogs and hamburgers.

Cortnie Needham, the Vice Corps Commander, is in charge of scorekeeping and collecting money. Scheduling the teams is a complex business that is managed on a spreadsheet. Each school competes in one or more of the competitions held at different locations throughout the day. Scoring is recorded by computers and the high-point winners will be honored at an awards ceremony at the end of the day. Cortnie explained, “One event is the inspection for military bearing, and for complete and immaculate uniforms. Sometimes the judges ask questions, such as ‘Who is the president? or ‘Who is the secretary of defense?’ But they do not score the answer so much as the manner in which the cadets respond.”

The Precision Drill Teams perform both with and without sabers or rifles, and they are expected to respond to any of 59 commands to be performed in the proper sequence. The Exhibition Teams perform marching drills and Color Guard Teams demonstrate their ability to present colors according to military rituals. The Physical Training Teams run, do pushups, sit-ups and broad jumps. Two judges, senior Army and Air Force ROTC cadets from Baylor University, score the team performance at each event.

Corps Commander Jessica Beaman, carrying her clipboard with the event schedule and essential notes, seems to be everywhere at once. Until she was chosen to be the corps commander, Jessica was the logistics officer and in charge of the equipment used when the cadets perform in community events in Corsicana and in the out-of-town competitions. Her uncle and grandfather were both military men.

She plans to work toward certification as an occupational therapist associate next year at Navarro College. Vice Corps Commander Cortnie Needham followed her aunt into the ROTC program. She took enough college credit classes to have 23 hours behind her when she enters Navarro College in the Texas A&M program. Always around horses on her uncle’s ranch, Cortnie wants to specialize in veterinary medicine. Cortnie said, “The Corps officers are nominated by the current senior staff and Colonel Pailes makes the final choice for corps commander, vice corps commander and cadets in charge of operations and logistics.

“As seniors,” Cortnie said, “we have to model what the cadets are supposed to learn. They watch us. We are recognized by all of the students in the school when we wear our uniforms one day a week. Other students we don’t know may stop us and comment on what we are doing.” It is evident that the student cadets take pride in being recognized as members of a group that is honored in the school. They also feel pride wearing the uniform of the United States Air Force. Cortnie added, “The best part is learning discipline and respect.” When this busy day is over, she and Jessica will also enjoy the good feeling that comes from accomplishing something that is important to the students and families from 23 visiting high school teams and to their own community.

Written by Joan Kilbourne

House Beautiful

Now_Staff — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 03:28:00 +0000

This summer, Jackie Pittman is following her cardiologist’s orders and exercising in her beautiful backyard pool. “My grandkids and their granddaddy loved that pool,” Jackie said. “I can still hear their voices say, ‘Granddaddy, one more time,’ and he would pitch ’em into the water!” Stan has not been with Jackie to enjoy that pool for the past five years, and she has grieved tremendously over the husband whom she ran away from home to marry four days before graduating from high school. Jackie has now completely renovated the 2,300-square-foot home that she and Stan shared for 32 years and has done a lot of growing in the process.

“I knew who Mrs. Stanley Pittman Senior was. But after he passed away, I had no idea who Jackie Pittman was. I was 57 years old when he died, and that’s young,” said Jackie, who had always been a wife, a mom and a grandmother. “My husband was bound and determined to prove to my parents that he could take care of me! I had never gotten the oil changed in the car; I had never bought insurance. The second year after he died was the year I bought my first car.” It was also the year Jackie started making her home into what she proudly calls “a woman’s froufrou house.” At Easter, Jackie put yellow grass in the bathroom windowsill, and filled it with eggs. She makes her bed daily and sets on it a serving tray with a vase and flower. She has kept a few reminders of her husband but turned her home all feminine.
“My kids tease me about the bookcase in my sitting room. Everything on it was something really important to my husband. None of it is sad memories,” Jackie said. “I knew that if I was going to stay in this house, I needed to make this My home, My place, My comfort spot, My security blanket.” Jackie received a lot of help from her dear friend from San Antonio, Mary Solomon, whose husband had been Stan’s colleague. “Mary was always redecorating her house, and when I decided to do some redecorating she said, ‘Let’s set a date. I’ll come; we’ll talk; we’ll go look at fabric.’”
When you know exactly what you want, you do not waste time! “Mary sewed the table skirt that we put on the 59-year-old coffee table that myself and my children and my grandchildren learned to walk around. She put a pillow on top where I can put my feet up here if I want to,” Jackie said. “She made the mosaic tile serving tray that’s on top with a fondue set. It’s wonderful to have a friend who loves to decorate!”
Mary sewed the window treatments throughout Jackie’s home. On a window seat in the kitchen nook built originally by developers Don and Donna Volkman, Jackie has arranged at least 12 pillows. “Some were made by Mary; the white ones with Battenberg Lace were my mother’s,” Jackie said. “I’m free now to have as many pillows as I like! My husband didn’t like pillows. I love pillows!”
The burgundy guest room gives that bed-and-breakfast feel. From the adjoining bathroom, lined with spring bouquet wallpaper, you gaze through greenish-gold lace onto the tall four-
poster bed, fluffy with a satin comforter. “The rocking chair was my mom’s,” Jackie said. “She rocked my children and her great-grandchildren in it. The buffet that’s in there was my daddy’s mother’s.”
Jackie sleeps on the cast-iron bed that belonged to her parents. “I’m very sentimental,” Jackie admitted. “There isn’t enough money in the whole wide world to buy my memories. I also love making memories. Every time we took a trip or did something really unusual, Stan would say, ‘We’re making memories!’ How wonderful our life was because we filled it with memories!”
In the extended dining room where Jackie entertains friends and family, her grandchildren, Colton, Bethany and Jack Tanner, like to sit with the adults at the dining table. On one wall, Jackie displays her bell collection in a hand-made cabinet that Stan commissioned from a craftsman in Burleson. Around 2004, Jackie switched to collecting kitchen chefs and now has 72 “little cooking buddies” surrounding her while she cooks for the 13-member small group from her church that Jackie says brought laughter back into her life.

“After Stan died, I had really given up living. I got very involved in church at First United Methodist in Alvarado, where I have been for 18 years,” said Jackie, who now co-chairs the bereavement dinner committee, serves on the congregational care committee and leads the new Stephens Ministry counseling program. “I definitely found out who Jackie Pittman is: Jackie Pittman is a caregiver. It’s a different direction now from wife, mother and Grammie.
“The biggest thing in my life now is my Stephens Ministry. Not having one at our church, and being asked to start one showed me a side of me that I didn’t know existed, the fact that someone saw leadership in me. It’s been wonderful,” Jackie said. “God leads you in directions where you have no idea you could walk down that road, but He leads you down that road.”
Jackie also spends a lot of time putting together pictures of all her generations to adorn the walls of the hall on the way to her red, white and blue Mickey Mouse room. Her favorite ride at the family’s much-loved vacation spot, Disney World, is memorialized by a music globe that plays “It’s a Small World,” just one of the many souvenirs Stan bought her. Jackie is still taking her time getting her Mickey Mouse room just the way she wants it.
Jackie has so many other areas to play with! In the den, she keeps current a holiday tree. For Independence Day, she puts garlands, strings of white lights, flags and any knickknack that is red, white and blue. “I also decorate it for St. Patrick’s Day, Christmas, Thanksgiving and Easter,” Jackie said. “I just always wanted to have one, so I decided a couple of years ago, Why not?” Most recently, Jackie hired two trustworthy men to retile her screened porch. From Jackie’s lounging glider — or from one of the two rocking chairs that she and Stan bought from Cracker Barrel as a gift for his mom before she passed away — Jackie can sit and gaze at the pool. “It’s a neat place to drink coffee in the morning and meditate,” she said. “Now, I gotta get my happy butt in that pool!”

Written by Melissa Rawlins

Feeling the Music

Now_Staff — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 03:00:29 +0000

Reneé Shreeves was in junior high when she first encountered a girl who was deaf. Instead of shying away like most children would, Reneé embraced her, becoming fascinated with learning about deaf disabilities. She took her first sign language class that year, and has not stopped signing since.
Years later, when she was in her 30s, Reneé moved to Texas seeking a fresh start from a life of corporate America in California. Realizing she wanted to do more in life by helping others, she began taking more sign interpretation classes, which slowly re-inspired her to mold this hobby into a passion. Eventually, it spurred into a voluntary lifestyle. “I just have a love for it,” she said. “It’s my passion.” Once in Texas, Reneé earned her sign language certification after completing a two-year program at Eastfield College in Mesquite. Reneé felt she needed to develop the best skills she could because the Deaf she would work with deserved that.
Since 1992, Reneé’s training and experience has led her to working with the Deaf and teaching others because she understands the need for it and understands the culture. “Learning the culture was beneficial,” Reneé confided. “It’s not just about the learning [sign language], you have to understand their needs.” She believes people must open their eyes to see the Deaf culture.
Reneé continued her new journey of sign interpretation in Plano due to a need within a large Catholic church. She signed during church services and taught the choir sign language, so they could sign while they sang worship songs. Her specialty became signing music, a unique gift that requires feeling a connection to music and emotion. She said the hearing would come up to her and thank her for sharing her beautiful gift, which brought the worship melodies to life through vivid pictures of gestures
and emotions. “It is a beautiful language that conveys so much,” she proclaimed. Even though the Deaf community in the church was not large, it still impacted the church as a whole. Members began taking sign classes Reneé taught. She
also mentored college students who were involved in sign language classes at universities. For Reneé, sign
interpretation is more than just showing language, it is also a way to bring music and voice from an unheard melody to a vision of song and worship for the Deaf. “We’re conveying their language,” Reneé stated. She picks the right signs that will reveal the essence of the music. She knows it is not easy for some interpreters to sign music because it involves really feeling and showing the emotion behind it. “[You have to] put expression in signing,” Reneé explained. “Deaf people can’t hear music, so it’s important that they feel the music.”
Melissa Herndon, Reneé’s best friend, roommate and fellow sign interpreter, explained how passionate and powerful Reneé is when she signs during worship at church, calling her “the light” and describing her as a caring individual who gives 110 percent. “[She uses] her whole body when she signs. She knows it inside and out, and puts in hours of preparation,” she narrated. “Her whole being is immersed in signing and interpretation.”
Reneé, humbled and flattered, agreed, “Church and interpretation are what I have been called to do. It’s so important to get the meaning across.”
After helping the church in Plano, Reneé moved to Cedar Hill and began attending the Cedar Hill First United Methodist Church at some friends’ invitation. One day during church service, a woman saw Reneé discreetly signing to herself while singing worship. The woman said it was beautiful to watch and asked if she could do sign language for the entire congregation. During that time, a 12-year- old, hearing-impaired boy from Cedar Hill, who attended a hearing-impaired school in Austin, and his family started visiting the church. The parents wanted their son to learn about God, but needed help teaching him. Thus, Reneé began signing during the 11:00 a.m. service so the young boy, and others, could hear and see in their language the message of God. “It brings stories to life and people get tears in their eyes,” she said.
With only one known deaf ministry in the Southwest area at Trinity Church of Cedar Hill, Reneé’s next big goal is to seek out and identify the Deaf community in the Southwest area. She also desires to take sign interpretation to higher levels within the community. Coming from the north side of Texas, she hopes to increase deaf services and grow the ministry in the Southwest area. “I feel we’ve been given talents and gifts, which lead us down paths that can impact people’s lives and change people,” Reneé explained. Melissa supports Reneé’s drive to reach out and bring growth to the Southwest Deaf community. She believes sign interpretation allows them to connect with people on a different level without judgment. They do not see the Deaf as “less than.” Melissa feels this is especially important in sign interpretation ministry. “For someone to help [a person] in their walk with Christ is so beneficial to anyone at church,” she explained. “The Deaf population can skip a hurdle by seeing the openness there.”
The church has put ads in the paper and in deaf-assisted agencies and publications to raise awareness and hopefully attendance in the church. “It’s an isolated world, so we have to bring the world to them,” Reneé stated. She believes the Deaf want people to communicate with them, which will necessitate their type of communication.
Soon they will start teaching sign language classes again at their church. “Even the hearing describe the signing as beautiful and want to learn more so they, too, can communicate with others,” Reneé explained. “People say they get so much more out of it.”
Reaching the Deaf community will require the whole community. Reneé and Melissa both hope spreading the word about this need will encourage people to get involved and learn more about the Deaf community and signing. “Bring help and understanding to people, find a place where it is used and they find fulfillment,” Reneé explained.
Melissa said their church’s motto is “open doors, open hearts, open minds.” This motto is exactly what they strive to be and give to the Deaf. They want to connect with them on a spiritual level where they can feel accepted, loved and comfortable in a church community. “The Deaf are our neighbors and we should reach out. They need us like we need them,” Melissa explained. Reneé believes this mentality will help connect the community as a whole, creating a happier and safer area.

Written by Antoinette Nevils